“The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re alive.” ~ O. A. Battista
Most men will either rise or fall based on the words from their woman. If you want your man to rise to his fullest potential then decide to build him up instead of tearing him down. You can build up your man by giving him positive words of love. Positive communication will show him that you believe in him and that you desire him. A little bit of encouragement can go a long way and the more of it, the better. Here are 25 things you can say to your man that will make his day and can change his life. Some of these are playful and others will blow him away by the strength of their message.
1) I love being around you.
2) You are my best friend.
3) I made your favorite dessert (or dinner).
4) I am such a happier woman because of the way you love me.
“If I get married, I want to be very married.” ~ Audrey Hepburn
5) Go ahead and sleep in tomorrow.
6) I love you so much.
7) I don’t have a headache tonight. Are you interested?
8) I got your favorite snack at the grocery store!
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” ~ Mignon McLaughlin
9) I had no idea you could do that! You continue to impress me.
10) I love living my life with you.
11) Our kids are blessed to have such a great dad like you. I love the way you spend time with them.
12) I am more in love with you than ever.
“Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves.” ~ Albert Einstein
13) I can’t believe how talented you are. You are so clearly gifted at _______.
14) I trust you and I believe in you.
15) I love watching the man you’ve become since we’ve been married.
16) I’m proud of you.
“One is very crazy when in love.” ~ Sigmund Freud
17) You are such a good man. God knew what I needed when He brought you into my life.
18) You still take my breath away.
19) I’m sorry. Will you please forgive me for _____?
20) I’m so glad you’re home.
“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” ~ Dave Meurer
21) You handled that incredibly well.
22) I forgive you. And I won’t bring this up again, okay?
23) You are one of the best things that ever happened to me.
24) Thanks for doing that. It means a lot to me when you serve me in little ways like that.
25) I love you so much!
“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.” ~ Roy Croft
I strongly suggest that you start using these relationship changing statements right away. Do not wait until your partner does something right, start saying these things now! A great relationship is never based on “I will if he will.” You should always strive to do the right thing regardless of what you partner is doing or not doing.
Let your partner be the one who says, “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” ~ Hermann Hesse
I also strongly suggest to the men who are reading this to look through some of these statements and consider how you can use some of this language in how you talk to your woman. If you both start making positive messages of love and encouragement and forgiveness to each other; the sky will be the limit for your relationship. So, be bold and use the language of great men and women.
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ~ Leo Buscaglia