Here are 12 signs that you have a great partner who truly loves you:
1) They Don’t Give Up When Things Are Tough.
Obstacles and hard times are expected so when the hard times come which they always do; your partner rolls up their sleeves and says “We’ll get through this together!”
2) They Make You Feel Special.
This is usually demonstrated in little but powerful ways like remembering your birthday and the various other holidays. It is also shown in the daily gestures like fixing your morning coffee or how sweetly they kiss you good morning.
“True love is selfless. It is prepared to sacrifice.”
~Sadhu Vaswan
3) You Feel Comfortable Confiding Your Insecurities.
A great partner who truly loves you will hold your inner struggles and insecurities in the safest of confidences. They will not hold them against you or bring them up in an argument.
4) You Feel Comfortable Sharing Your Thoughts And Feelings.
Your partner seems genuinely interested in what you have to say and they want to know all of the little details that make you, YOU.
“Nothing can bring a real sense of security into the home except true love.”
~Billy Graham
5) They Don’t Expect Anything In Return.
Relationships should have elements of both give and take. A great partner who truly loves you gives without expectations of receiving anything other than the fact they made you happy or to brighten up your day.
6) They Always Have Your Back.
It doesn’t matter if the person coming against you happens to be friends or rivals; family members or enemies, they stand beside you. Provided you aren’t acting inappropriately or disrespectfully. This goes for all of the 12 points of this article. You cannot expect to mistreat your partner or others and expect to get this kind of red carpet treatment. Always make sure you are acting out of love and in respect towards your partner. Be the kind of partner that makes your partner want to daily exemplify these loving qualities.
“True love bears all, endures all and triumphs!”
~Dada Vaswani
7) They Put Your Needs Above Theirs.
This kind of action is unconditional love at its best. This may not always be possible; especially if you have children or work demands are pulling you away. This should be an overall desire to put your partner’s needs as a priority.
8) They Support Your Dreams.
I cannot count all of the times, my wife has taken time off of work to travel with me in support of the various goals and dreams I have pursued in the martial arts and in my professional endeavors. She has done more for me than anyone on the planet and I will always be appreciative of her loving sacrifices.
“It can only be true love when you enable your other half to be better, to be the person they’re destined to be.”
~ Michelle Yeoh
9) They Don’t Hesitate To Show Public Affection.
A loving partner is not afraid to let the whole world know that they love you. They will gladly hold your hand and give you a sweet peck on the cheek.
10) They Are Proud Of You And Celebrate Your Accomplishments.
The words “I’m proud of you” go a long way towards making your partner feel truly loved. Most people will go to their grave and no one has ever spoken those words to them. Make sure your partner knows that you are proud of them and proud to be with them.
11) They Have A Forgiving Heart.
Holding a grudge or resentment will kill a once true love. It is important to forgive your partner for their mistakes especially if they are truly sorry and are trying to rectify the error of their ways. Strive to be the kind of partner who can let things go so true love can flourish.
“The course of true love never did run smooth.”
~William Shakespeare
12) They Bring Out The Best In You.
I absolutely know I am a better man as a result of even knowing my wife. She inspires me to become better and better versions of myself and for this I am truly grateful. This is how you want to make your partner feel. Be an encourager who cheers your partner onward. Be an example of true love in a relationship!
“True love stories never have endings.”
~Richard Bach
Mark Webb is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice at Oakwood Counseling Center in Valdosta. He is the author of How To Be A Great Partner and How To Argueproof Your Relationship. Read more of his articles at www.TheRelationshipSpecialist.com